Jen
Wedding Etiquette
This weekend, all contributors to this blog - minus Mike (we wish you could be there!) - are going to celebrate the union of our friends Dustin and Laura. I’m super excited to go to this wedding. I’ve known Dustin since first grade, so it’s nice to see such a familiar face grow up and get hitched. However, this wedding has got me questioning a few things.
1) Dress: Christie and I have been discussing this for at least two weeks now. The wedding is February 25th - obviously still in winter - and we have both decided on black dresses. Here is where the problem comes in: shoes. What kind of shoes should we wear? We both have strappy spring/summer heels, and really, if you go shopping, that is all there is to buy. So do we rock the strappy heels sans nylons, or do we wear the nylons with the strappy shoes?
2) Gift: Okay, I’ve asked around a bit, and apparently the minium gift for a wedding is $100. I’ve even heard $75 per person. Now as you may or may not know, Matt and I are poor. That is one of the reasons I have three jobs. I’d love to give $150 to the deserving couple, but even $100 is pushing it for me. So, can you do a gift, let’s say a handmade piece of art by yours truly, plus a lesser amount of money?
I’d love to hear your thoughts on the manner.